Friday, June 20, 2008

anger management

Last time i heard, Adam Sandler was the protagonist. Even a quiet guy like Adam had to get pissed off eventually.

Anger comes in many forms, e.g mild, moderate and extreme. Getting angry is part of life,in fact, it's an integral part of life for some. Lets be honest, Alex Ferguson wouldn't be winning championships if he didn't blow his top everytime man u played like a bunch of nannies. So tell me, who doesn't get pissed off from time to time? u'd be lying if u told me 'i never get angry, ever!'. Whether it is the internal accumulation of livid sensations or external rage, it still is ANGER, so cut the crap and don't give me all that bollocks about not getting angry. The only difference is whether u show it, and how u show it, and that also happens to be the bottom line, remember that XD. So unless you're ever-forgiving saint, it is improbable to restrain the rising of blood temperatures and feeling the heart pounding in excitement. Fyi, it's also the moment when people experience the adrenaline rush.

Well, that's not the sole reason i'm blogging tonight. The paragraph above might seem as a justification of my actions, but NOOOO (imagine the longest 'no' u've ever heard), haha not this time! It all started when i went to play football with my buddies today. We were practising our corner kicks and finishing in front of goal, so one of us was given the duty to supply corner kicks for the other guys. We were having so much fun, then a ball was kicked out of bounds, i went to pick it up and crossed it for the guys. As i made my way back to the goal mouth, something hard struck me at the back, just below my neck sending me tumbling down to the ground, rolling around and writhing in pain. After i regained composure, I made my way to the 6 yard box again, without complaining whatsoever. That was till i found out that the thing that hit me wasn't a ball, it was some solid coconut-like fruit that hit me so hard and caused me so much misery. At the spurt of a moment, I felt uncontrollable infuriation and cursed the person who brought much pain onto me. I'm sure he didn't intend to strike me with it, but at that point in time, i felt that it was necessary to force upon him the concept that one should THINK before one does ridiculous stuff like crossing stuff like that. I wanted it to sink in into his brain, but i couldn't get myself to say it in an extremely diplomatic manner. well, that was the end of it. I didn't say more. Didn't have too. We played a match together after that and things are back to normal already. What can i say? a lesson learnt the hard way for him, and a cue to remind myself to be more polite while telling people off.

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